tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post1675557746329275906..comments2023-09-16T11:37:10.056-04:00Comments on I'm Always Right: Need HelpRedheadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03763007541819974123noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-48007795499843352452007-08-21T07:54:00.000-04:002007-08-21T07:54:00.000-04:00UGH! Guys are so passive aggressive it's just blah...UGH! Guys are so passive aggressive it's just blah!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-92157452015157157982007-08-17T12:27:00.000-04:002007-08-17T12:27:00.000-04:00Good lawdie... you actually eat tofu? No wonder ...Good lawdie... you actually eat tofu? No wonder you end up at a skankee's game.<BR/><BR/>There's an easy way handle this... aside from what Bella said. <BR/><BR/>Tell the guy you're going to be eating lunch at such-and-such park, which is always loaded with people, and would like to see him there.<BR/><BR/>In flip-flops and a satin thong.<BR/><BR/>If he likes you, he'll do it and you can be assured that joining his Friendster is the absolutely wrong thing to do.<BR/><BR/>If he doesn't... make sure you bring a good book. Seb Junger has his most recent out in paperback - "A death in Belmont."<BR/><BR/>Bring a cattle prod for self-protection just in case.<BR/><BR/>meow.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-41061359866205069212007-08-17T09:10:00.000-04:002007-08-17T09:10:00.000-04:00diarrhea of the mouth: Retail therapy is nice, but...diarrhea of the mouth: Retail therapy is nice, but it can get really, really, really expensive. With the number of guys I have to deal with (is that normal?), I would be living on the street if I bought shoes and purses every time one pissed me off.<BR/><BR/>a lover and a fighter: Yeah, tk has a way with words. I'm much calmer about the situation today, so I emailed him and called him out a little bit (just for fun - I'm pretty sure it will freak him out).<BR/><BR/>onthevirg: I am not going to puss out and join! Have a little faith here dickhead! (Obviously I meant that in a nicer way than it came out...yeah.)<BR/><BR/>mcbias: Boys suck (well, not you of course). Good advice though - I sent him an email basically saying thanks for the invite, I'm not really interested in Friendster, and I hope everything is going well. Short, sweet, and if he grows any balls he'll take the lead from there. If not, it won't be a loss for me.<BR/><BR/>Dave: I know, it's nice that everyone's pitching in with advice - it almost gives me the warm fuzzies inside (you know, if I had a heart). I went to the Yanks game last night and had many beers and a pretzel - which is almost as good as beer and tofu (but not nearly as good as beer and a hot dog), so that's good advice too. As for the direct approach, well - read above and see that I emailed him, but I didn't really say anything either. Let's see if he's capable of going out on a limb (for once).Redheadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03763007541819974123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-85608753695563836602007-08-16T23:56:00.000-04:002007-08-16T23:56:00.000-04:00Red, So many friends with advice after a long day....Red, <BR/><BR/>So many friends with advice after a long day. <BR/><BR/>Yes, your are allowed to have girl thoughts and feelings. Always and forever. I hope.<BR/><BR/>Wow, I thought I was passive-aggresive in the past. F that stuff, says the wise older Virginia gentleman. He is being indirect as possible because he's been thinking about you for a while but wondered how to get back in touch. He could have done better, so appreciate the "effort", regardless the avenue. <BR/><BR/>I'd get direct if you still have an interest. Email his ass and say WTF about the network invitation. Go have a beer and tofu. <BR/><BR/>If you still have good thoughts about him, then do it. Do not over analyze. Trust yourself when you are speaking/emailing him. He may be secretly hoping for the direct approach. <BR/><BR/>DaveAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-92019709044432621072007-08-16T20:26:00.000-04:002007-08-16T20:26:00.000-04:00Oh, a word of caution: all my romantic advice is t...Oh, a word of caution: all my romantic advice is theoretical, ha. I hereby waive all personal responsibility for your further actions. :-)MCBiashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08158534411541450613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-29788058548838460852007-08-16T20:25:00.000-04:002007-08-16T20:25:00.000-04:00There are two possibilities. (1) He really did lik...There are two possibilities. <BR/>(1) He really did like you, but wasn't able to express it. Being a wuss, he's casually checking your interest via this Friendster invite. <BR/>(2) He just wants to keep his options open, and this is a way of showing that he still wants to have some contact with you in case he ever changes his mind.<BR/><BR/>As long as he's not a player (and it definitely sounds like he's too clueless to be one), why not accept and send him a little note saying "hey, thanks, what's going on with you?" Don't volunteer any info about yourself. If you get a long letter back and he asks you several questions about yourself, it's (1); otherwise, it's (2). Right? Best of luck.MCBiashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08158534411541450613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-7228517339528071702007-08-16T18:33:00.000-04:002007-08-16T18:33:00.000-04:00The dude's obviously a gigantic vag. If he was re...The dude's obviously a gigantic vag. If he was really interested he'd contact you directly. And if he <B>is</B> and he decided to use Friendster (wayyyy lame) to do it, do you want to be involved w/ such a limp dick? Unless you constantly want to be the aggressor. Seriously. <BR/><BR/>Move along people, there's nothing to see here. But you'll probably puss out and join anyway. Women <I>*Snort*</I>onthevirghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07393086385087962938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-55213253738633049522007-08-16T16:19:00.000-04:002007-08-16T16:19:00.000-04:00accept it. what's the worst that could happen? and...accept it. what's the worst that could happen? and tk's first comment made me laugh.A Lover and a Fighterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11111363168909263149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-37546843153564740292007-08-16T14:40:00.000-04:002007-08-16T14:40:00.000-04:00I'll drink to that...:) BellaI'll drink to that...<BR/><BR/>:) BellaBellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03776447103944171477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-63563361558617496282007-08-16T14:36:00.000-04:002007-08-16T14:36:00.000-04:00Yeah, sure, be logical. Men bother me so much less...Yeah, sure, be logical. Men bother me so much less when I'm drinking.Redheadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03763007541819974123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-62242100641718591392007-08-16T13:18:00.000-04:002007-08-16T13:18:00.000-04:00Don't waste your time trying to psycho-analyze men...Don't waste your time trying to psycho-analyze men. It's a total waste of time.<BR/><BR/>Obviously, he has/had a thing for you to even want you to join. If he wanted to build up his newtwork, he could very easily do that without you. He's been thinking about you no doubt.<BR/><BR/>If you're interested, join.<BR/><BR/>If not, *delete*<BR/><BR/>Good luck...Bellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03776447103944171477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-3637238200698486832007-08-16T13:10:00.000-04:002007-08-16T13:10:00.000-04:00cheese: Christine said the same thing, but since I...cheese: Christine said the same thing, but since I've NEVER been on Friendster before today, I clearly didn't know when it was cool, so... Still, maybe he did just reinput his address book. I'm just getting a headache from this whole thing. Thanks for the advice though.<BR/><BR/>tk: You're advice in the past two days has ranged from pretty good to fucking scary. And I am allowed an OCCASSIONAL girl moment, so stop grumbling - at least I post more than once a week.<BR/><BR/>jack: Yeah, I'm thinking that's what happened too. Not sure what I'm going to do, but if I do respond it definitely won't be today - I need to distance myself from my own brain first.<BR/><BR/>glassyarddog: Smartass.Redheadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03763007541819974123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-80840644328862797092007-08-16T12:58:00.000-04:002007-08-16T12:58:00.000-04:00I'm 100% with tk on this one.If you have interest,...I'm 100% with tk on this one.<BR/><BR/>If you have interest, respond. If not, just pretend you haven't used Friendster in years and have joined a vegan cult that does not allow computer access.<BR/><BR/>EAT MEAT!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-50555313651646847582007-08-16T12:45:00.000-04:002007-08-16T12:45:00.000-04:00I'm thinking he just re-input the addresses to see...I'm thinking he just re-input the addresses to see if he could get his friend count higher....<BR/><BR/>I really think you are in a no-lose situation though. Just email him/or join and see what happens.Shaunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09588168584127417327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-79638782161799390972007-08-16T12:44:00.000-04:002007-08-16T12:44:00.000-04:00Hey, I TRIED to help. Your last TWO posts, I left...Hey, I TRIED to help. Your last TWO posts, I left perfectly good, helpful advice. Not my fault you ignore me and are trying to crazy it out by yourself.<BR/><BR/><I>*grumble grumble grumble*</I>TKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13495736427508294951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-90638874751618277212007-08-16T12:41:00.000-04:002007-08-16T12:41:00.000-04:00Random male reader here with my advice....Who the ...Random male reader here with my advice....<BR/><BR/>Who the fuck still uses Friendster? Seriously, that's soooo 2005. I haven't even been on my account in probably 6 months. <BR/><BR/>And yeah, if I remember correctly, there were a LOT of attempts by Friendster to do the whole "input your address book" annoying things, so its possible he did that....<BR/><BR/>If not, RUN. Dude's creepy.cheesehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07062427776255360283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-77340432413809648752007-08-16T12:35:00.000-04:002007-08-16T12:35:00.000-04:00THAT'S not helping.THAT'S not helping.Redheadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03763007541819974123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-83007499627046286232007-08-16T12:19:00.000-04:002007-08-16T12:19:00.000-04:00*Throws hands in the air, walks away muttering*<I>*Throws hands in the air, walks away muttering*</I>TKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13495736427508294951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-49137273656256116792007-08-16T12:14:00.000-04:002007-08-16T12:14:00.000-04:00I'm not in his fantasy baseball league anymore! I ...I'm not in his fantasy baseball league anymore! I haven't spoken to him sense the end of LAST season. <BR/><BR/>It's just my luck that I like a guy who's completely clueless socially. The good catches, nah - they're boring. The spazes - bring em on! <BR/><BR/>*Banging head against desk - over, and over, and over again*Redheadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03763007541819974123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-83643488084603092522007-08-16T12:04:00.000-04:002007-08-16T12:04:00.000-04:00This one's easy. David Wells cleared waivers this...This one's easy. David Wells cleared waivers this morning and he probably wants to know if you think he's going to get picked up.<BR/>Either that, or he's a total jackass who doesn't know how to talk to women.Jumpshootingfoolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13873154543109766147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-40862473743641474182007-08-16T11:52:00.000-04:002007-08-16T11:52:00.000-04:00Jesus Christ in a bucket. Enough with the neurosi...Jesus Christ in a bucket. <BR/><BR/>Enough with the neurosis. Do his motivations even <I>matter</I>? Do you want to see him again? <BR/><BR/>If yes, respond. If no, don't respond.<BR/><BR/>If you don't want to join the Friendster thing, just send him and email saying you're not into Friendster, and maybe: <BR/><BR/>"Hey, how's it going? Let's get together. Oh, by the way, you make me feel funny. Down where I pee."<BR/><BR/>That should do it.TKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13495736427508294951noreply@blogger.com