tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post8225273471464245021..comments2023-09-16T11:37:10.056-04:00Comments on I'm Always Right: AwkwardRedheadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03763007541819974123noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-12015778135221538372007-07-11T09:15:00.000-04:002007-07-11T09:15:00.000-04:00Hey, I still think my best advice was to come acro...Hey, I still think my best advice was to come across for him, but just be really, really lousy at it.<BR/><BR/>We're just trying to help. We're helpers.TKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13495736427508294951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-81664018266008145432007-07-11T09:09:00.000-04:002007-07-11T09:09:00.000-04:00TK, onthevirg, wes:Firstly - John has known me for...TK, onthevirg, wes:<BR/><BR/>Firstly - John has known me for a long time - he knows I'm a bitch and loves me anyway - so acting poorly to get him to change his mind probably won't work.<BR/><BR/>Secondly - You all suck..Redheadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03763007541819974123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-89207301319435198942007-07-10T17:38:00.000-04:002007-07-10T17:38:00.000-04:00TK's right. It sounds like the guy's got it bad f...TK's right. It sounds like the guy's got it bad for you and continually ducking him isn't going to stop that.<BR/><BR/>Here's another idea. Go out with him. But just be a complete bitch all the time. I mean...<B>that</B> shouldn't be hard right? Combine that with not giving up the poo-nanny. That should take care of it. And ruin your friendship. See, I'm not just creepy, I'm a problem solver too.onthevirghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07393086385087962938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-78012245153251812542007-07-10T10:26:00.000-04:002007-07-10T10:26:00.000-04:00Way to make me feel better TK, thanks.Way to make me feel better TK, thanks.Redheadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03763007541819974123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-72237212148503616592007-07-10T10:14:00.000-04:002007-07-10T10:14:00.000-04:00You know you're not doing either you or him any fa...You know you're not doing either you or him any favors by continuously ducking the issue, right?<BR/><BR/>I'm sure he got the hint. The question is... does that matter? Because from an outsider's perspective, the problem doesn't sound like he simply has the hots for you and wants to make the beast with two backs. The problem sounds like he has a crush/obsession/is in love with you. And if I'm right, that's a big problem.TKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13495736427508294951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-71396317767626568852007-07-10T10:08:00.000-04:002007-07-10T10:08:00.000-04:00Dave: It was definitely one of those 'Oh shit' sit...Dave: It was definitely one of those 'Oh shit' situations - clearly not my finest moment. Now let's see if he ever speaks to me again.<BR/><BR/>onthevirg: Christine got paid back when I offered her up as a sacrificial lamb to John - she was NOT pleased when I told her she may have to do me a solid and go out with him (he really is cute, but they have NOTHING in common).<BR/>"Blitzkrieg of avoidance" - I like that, it's even better than "passive agressive tour de force."Redheadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03763007541819974123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-56131011218491084042007-07-09T18:11:00.000-04:002007-07-09T18:11:00.000-04:00First off, tell your friend Christine to quit giv...First off, tell your friend Christine to quit giving out such crappy advice. For us guys that is.<BR/><BR/>Way to give him the blitzkrieg of avoidance. Solid work. I'm sure you eliminated any confusion he was having.onthevirghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07393086385087962938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2963940430516650019.post-29272926276837962472007-07-09T16:59:00.000-04:002007-07-09T16:59:00.000-04:00Red, This seems to be a situation where regardless...Red, <BR/><BR/>This seems to be a situation where regardless of how it went you look back and go, "Oh shit."<BR/><BR/>John knew something was coming and it sounds like he did not want to address anything. Yes, you may have understandably had a few and felt like you were babbling, but who wouldn't be in your shoes? He decided to just let you go on and on. <BR/><BR/>Regardless, even though the issue was danced around, it was indirectly addressed by your multilple suggestions. If he looked like a smashed truck it may have been because he still did not want to hear of other lady suggestions and did not have an answer. We all can be stubborn and clueless. It may be his turn here. He may want to have it both ways with you and that ain't going to work. <BR/><BR/>Still be a good friend to him and let him figure it out. He needs to decide on some things. <BR/><BR/>The movie was great, eh? I thought it was very well done and hilarious.<BR/><BR/>Happy aloe.<BR/><BR/>DaveAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com